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DaddyGuru's Living Tantra Retreat for Men Who Love Men
Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica
Aug 1 - 4, 2025
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TheDaddyGuru - LGBTQ+ Spirituality and Healing
$600
Deposit: $300

About your trip

 "Get out of your head. Stay in your heart" with this deeper dive into tantra philosophy, connection, flow, surrender and intimacy practices that will stimulate the kundalini, open your heart, resonate your inner truth, and help you embrace that perfectly imperfect, infinite you.


This clothing optional, weekend retreat is strictly for gay or bi cis men and is an introductory dive (or fun refresher) into the world of tantra. Practices and philosophies behind this powerful way of life will focus on: self-acceptance, surrender, self-love, disconnecting from the ego, recognizing your inner truth, awakening your innate feminine (Shakti), and moving beyond the blockages and densities that are holding you back in life.

Tantra Has Signficant Benefits in:

 Tantra Has Signficant Benefits in:

  • Self-awareness and realization
  • Self-love and love for life
  • Minimizing negativity and toxic subjectivity
  • Tapping into your personal power via vulnerability work
  • Alleviating anxiety
  • Improving upon connection and intimacy with others
  • Expression of feelings and experiences in a clearer manner
  • Eliminating ancestral trauma and toxic familial templates
  • Manifesting the reality you desire

and of course:

  • Augmenting your sexual energy (kundalini) for high-vibrational, soul-nourishing sex.

Students have the option to stay overnight in the casa on our 2nd floor which has private access to two bedrooms and a dormitory for up to six roomies. Our RAM bedroom has a queen bed for two people and our LAM bedroom has a king bed for up to three people.

We also have a meditation/massage room where treatments in Reiki, deep tissue massage, and tantric massage can be provided at an additional cost.

We have a large fire pit at the corner of the house where participants can gather nightly if they wish and connect as they stargaze at the expansive Costa Rican night sky. Our cochera (carport) is roughly 100 m², and, when matted it serves as an outdoor studio for the majority of classes.

Please Note:

Tantra practices can take you into your shadows and force you to face lifelong traumas or challenges that have haunted your ego and held you back. Although, DaddyGuru and his staff are not certified social workers or therapists, they will be able to hold space for you and assist you in processing these shadows from a spiritual AND a therapeutic angle by visiting your inner child. Your inner child can carry an incredible amount of toxicity that needs releasing.

DaddyGuru works also as a private intimacy healer and has been working with men from all walks of life, helping them to see, acknowledge and release the demons blocking their potential to be happy with their lives. So, if you decide to come, be prepared for a breakthrough or two. They are very common at tantric events and it's incredibly special when you have a new "weekend family" to hold space for you, listen, and embrace the beauty that is that imperfectly perfect you.

What Makes This Place Special?

Casa Kama is a spiritual retreat and healing sanctuary dedicated to "holding space" for the LGBTQ+ community, since many spiritual centers around the world have proven they cannot.

Our tantra programs differ from others in that we specialize in "holding space" for the worldwide queer community and to give them a safe haven to open up, express, find power through our vulnerabilities, process trauma, and to be heard and seen by those who understand our challenges as a fringe community.


There are specific boundaries that regular retreats and schools will never understand or even TRY to understand. This was recently experienced by DaddyGuru and four other students while at a tantra retreat in Thailand. They were unable to recognize our queer journeys, hold space for us (especially when there were triggers), and to honor our boundaries because they didn't deem them serious enough.


EVERY boundary is serious and holds truth.

Questions? Consult with DaddyGuru

 DaddyGuru knows there's a lot to figure out in your life and there are times we are unsure what we need and what we don't.  If you would like more clarification about our tantra programs and what they offer, you can contact DaddyGuru directly at:


+506 7154 3100 (preferably on WhatsApp)

or North America Telephone: +1 647 499 1149

or Instagram Chat: @thedaddyguru or @casakamalife

or Websites:  www.casakama.life or www.thedaddyguru.com

What's included

Accommodations

Private or shared Rooms with AC

3 Meals a Day

Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner

Wi-Fi

*When not in class

Parking

On the premises

Free pickup

From La Managua Quepos Airport or Quepos Bus Station

What's not included

Restaurant Meals

Food outside Casa Kama

Major Airport Transfers

Transportation from SJO or LIB airports to Quepos

August 1 • 1 agosto

August 1 • 1 agosto image

Friday • Viernes

ENGLISH

4:00 PM   Introduction

5:00 PM   Importance of Boundaries

6:00 PM   Evening flow + connection primer

7:00 PM   Dinner

9:00 PM   Free time / bedtime


ESPAÑOL

16:00  Introducción

17:00  Importancia de los límites

18:00  Flujo vespertino + cebador de conexión

19:00  Cena

21:00  Tiempo libre / hora de acostarse

August 2 • 2 agosto

August 2 • 2 agosto image

Saturday • Sabado

ENGLISH

6:00 AM   Kundalini Yoga (jumpstart the body)

6:30 AM   Pranayama (fueling the soul)

7:00 AM   VAM (Vibration Augmentation via Mantras)

8:00 AM   Breakfast

9:00 AM   Free Time

10:00 AM   Meditation

10:30 AM   Compassionate Sharing

11:30 AM   Flow and intimacy exercises

1:00 PM   Lunch

2:00 PM   Free Time

4:30 PM   Tantra Main Event

7:30 PM   Dinner

9:00 PM   Meditation / Compassionate Sharing

9:30 PM   Free time / bedtime


ESPAÑOL

06:00  Kundalini Yoga (reactivar el cuerpo)

06:30   Pranayama (alimentando el alma)

07:00  Aumento de Vibración vía Mantras

08:00  Desayuno

09:00  Tiempo libre

10:00   Meditación

10:30   Compartiendo compasivamente

11:30    Ejercicios de fluidez e intimidad.

13:00   Almuerzo

14:00   Tiempo libre

16:30   Evento principal de Tantra

19:30   Cena

21:00   Meditación / Compartir compasivamente

21:30   Tiempo libre / hora de acostarse



August 3 • 3 agosto

August 3 • 3 agosto image

Sunday • Domingo

ENGLISH

6:00 AM   Kundalini Yoga (jumpstart the body)

6:30 AM   Pranayama (fueling the soul)

7:00 AM   VAM (Vibration Augmentation via Mantras)

8:00 AM   Breakfast

9:00 AM   Free Time

10:00 AM   Meditation

10:30 AM   Compassionate Sharing

11:30 AM   Flow and intimacy exercises

1:00 PM   Lunch

2:00 PM   Free Time

4:30 PM   Tantra Main Event

7:30 PM   Dinner

9:00 PM   Meditation / Compassionate Sharing

9:30 PM   Free time / bedtime


ESPAÑOL

06:00   Kundalini Yoga (reactivar el cuerpo)

06:30   Pranayama (alimentando el alma)

07:00   Aumento de Vibración vía Mantras

08:00  Desayuno

09:00  Tiempo libre

10:00   Meditación

10:30    Compartiendo compasivamente

11:30     Ejercicios de fluidez e intimidad.

13:00   Almuerzo

14:00   Tiempo libre

16:30    Evento principal de Tantra

19:30   Cena

21:00    Meditación / Compartir compasivamente

21:30   Tiempo libre / hora de acostarse


August 4 • 4 agosto

August 4 • 4 agosto image

Monday • Lunes

ENGLISH

6:00 AM   Kundalini Yoga (jumpstart the body)

6:30 AM   Pranayama (fueling the soul)

7:00 AM   VAM (Vibration Augmentation via Mantras)

8:00 AM   Breakfast

9:30 AM   Recap, Compassionate Sharing, & Conclusion


ESPAÑOL

06:00  Kundalini Yoga (reactivar el cuerpo)

06:30  Pranayama (alimentando el alma)

07:00  Aumento de Vibración vía Mantras

08:00  Desayuno

09:30  Resumen, intercambio compasivo y conclusión

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1. Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

Puntarenas Province, Quepos, Costa Rica

About your organizer

DaddyGuru (John Thomsen) is a Tantric Guru and Intimacy Healer originally from LA, New York City and Toronto, Canada.  He is co-owner of Casa Kāma, a healing sanctuary in Costa Rica, and owes his spiritual expansion to his mother who was an Akashic channeler. A creative writing graduate from the University of Utah, John has also been a lifelong LBTQ+ activist and has been healing and empowering marginalized victims of childhood abuse and trauma for 6 years via Tantra, Kundalini Yoga and Somatic practices.

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