RESILIENT is not a retreat built around being a birthmother, it is a retreat for women who are eager to build resilience and share (at least) this one commonality. Much like the first retreat, this one is also focused on life after trauma and the intentional pursuit of hope, healing, and joy ... all curated to reflect the value of a holistic approach.
Twenty-one years ago, a few months after my fifteenth birthday I delivered a healthy baby girl and a few days later left the hospital with empty arms, a grieving heart and a new title ... birthmother. I was in my thirties before I ever spoke to another woman who could truly understand and empathize with this part of my life. I'll never forget the feeling of relief to be able to sit in conversation with someone who "got it" ... I'm just sorry it took so long.
Four years ago I unintentionally became an educator and advocate within the adoption community after sharing a post about being a birthmom in reunion went viral. I was shocked to see how few resources were available and how many stigmas were still attached to women like me, nearly two decades later.
In September of 2024 I released every moment before this one, my debut collection of poetry and prose on trauma & resilience ... a concept not exclusive to the adoption community but well acquainted with it. resilient is a retreat grounded in my unflinching belief that grief and gratitude can coexist, hope is worth holding fast to, and resilience isn't a bad word.
*note, cancellations can only be refunded if the spot can be filled. If the event is cancelled by the organizer a refund will be issued within the week of the announcement.
single or shared beds (depending on availability and purchase) in shared rooms.
breakfast, lunch, dinner, spring water, and some snacks. (organic and ethically sourced when possible).
intentional sessions with experts of their respective fields.
professional candid photos documenting our time together as well as a special portrait session for anyone interested.
intentionally curated bags (no junk) meant to add depth to your experience.
flights, fuel, car rentals etc. are the responsibility of the attendees
Need more time for fun + community? Let's head to Dollywood after checkout on Sunday!
I'm happy to accommodate allergies and dietary restrictions but won't provide specific snacks/drinks.
3:00 - arrive | settle in | artsy activities
6:00 - family style dinner
8:00 - ice cream social | introductions + stories
08:00 - breakfast
10:00 - nature adventure
12:00 - lunch (on a trail or by a waterfall)
03:00 - cultivating resilience workshop
06:00 - dinner
08:00 - guided discussions (probably around a bonfire)
08:00 - breakfast
10:00 - workshop with Leah Outten
12:00 - lunch
03:00 - free time to rest or explore (enjoy the cabin or head into town)
06:00 - family style dinner
08:00 - guided discussions (probably around a bonfire)
8:00 - breakfast
10:00 - check out and head to Dollywood! (extra expense)
