Virtual Bodysex Circle: Self-Pleasure, Body Acceptance, & Sisterhood

4 reviews
Nov 10 - 11, 2023
Group size: 1 - 10
Virtual Bodysex Circle: Self-Pleasure, Body Acceptance, & Sisterhood

4 reviews

Nov 10 - 11, 2023
Group size: 1 - 10

About this trip

Calling all Black Women who want to learn how to tap into more sexual satisfaction, body acceptance, and self-love. You’re invited to step into The Bodysex Circle to release body shame, reconnect with your feminine self, and bond with a new sisterhood. 

Does this sound familiar?

✅ I put my partner’s sexual needs ahead of my own, so I rarely feel sexually satisfied.

✅ It’s hard to slow down, turn off my brain, and really enjoy sex.

✅ I’m either thinking of what I need to do, thinking-wishing-hoping that I have an orgasm.

✅ I’m single and haven’t dated in ages, so my sex life doesn’t exist…even with myself.

✅ I just wish my body looked better.


You don’t need sexier lingerie, a better lover, or a different body!  

All you need is the right education, stimulation, and support to become the expert of your own body… and your own pleasure

Enter Bodysex.


Bodysex® is an educational and transformational method developed over 40 years ago by Betty Dodson, PhD, who was an icon in the field of sex education. She aimed to help women heal body shame and pleasure anxiety while exploring how to have better orgasms. 

You are invited into a sacred circle surrounded by other Black women where participants share their own experiences with pleasure and body image in a compassionate and supportive environment.

A Virtual Bodysex Workshop via Zoom guides you through all of the rituals shared during an in-person workshop and invites first-person sharing of your experiences. You will explore the rituals privately from the comfort of home. 

Nudity is not required!

Bodysex Core Beliefs:

🌸 Sexual pleasure and independent orgasm is a fundamental human right. It is the source of life and creativity.

🌸 Masturbation is the foundation of all human sexuality.

🌸 The clitoris is a woman’s primary sensory sex organ.

🌸 All women can orgasm with the right support, education and stimulation.

🌸 Every woman is the expert of her own body.

🌸 Self-Pleasure is healing and a part of self-care.


Black women have been groomed to work, to struggle, and to push through life which often leaves you feeling disconnected from your body and your pleasure.

The Black Goddess Collective seeks to bring Bodysex to you as a way to: 

🌸 correct years of miseducation about your sexual anatomy

🌸 celebrate your beautiful Black body 

🌸 collectively heal trauma and shame around sex

Goddess, it’s time to expand your capacity to receive more satisfying sexual pleasure.

We invite you to The Bodysex Circle  to begin your journey of self-exploration, self-pleasure, and self-love. 

Black Goddess Collective curates Bodysex Circles exclusively for Black women because we understand the need to create vulnerable, safe spaces so you can be honest and real about your challenges as a Black woman. This workshop will allow you to feel the sisterhood of unconditional acceptance, compassion, and support. 


What you’ve been NEEDING is finally here! A Self-Pleasure workshop designed to give you the sexual wellness and educational tools to heal and expand your relationship to your sexuality so that you can embody the Feminine Goddess within. 

A Virtual Bodysex Workshop via Zoom guides you through all of the rituals shared during an in-person workshop and invites first-person sharing of your experiences. You will explore the rituals privately from the comfort of home. 

Nudity is not required!

You’ll learn what no one ever taught you about your pleasure, and your sexual anatomy, so you can . . .

🌸 appreciate your body more!

🌸 increase your pleasure capacity

🌸 more easily access your orgasm (with or without a partner)!

🌸 learn how to become comfortable with self-pleasure (aka masturbation)!



You’ll learn all about your vulva (ladies, it’s vulva not vagina) and your pleasure anatomy by looking at Betty’s vulva sketches, anatomical drawings, and the internal clitoral structure. 

Women have the most sophisticated sex organ on the planet capable of endless pleasure. All women can orgasm.  The clitoris is evergreen – it never ages – you can have orgasms until the day you die. And the great news is ladies, it's never too late to begin.

We’ll teach you about different types of orgasms and masturbation techniques so you can discover what you like best. Imagine having more confidence about how to please yourself (whether or not you have a partner) AND asking for what you want in the bedroom (if you do have a partner).


Think about how many times you look at your face but not your sex organ.  To fully embrace sexual pleasure, you must understand your basic anatomy, find the parts that bring you to orgasm, and claim your body for your own pleasure.

During Genital Show & Tell, you’ll explore your own vulva, see the diversity of other women’s genitalia and let go of genital shame and replace it with pride. You’ll identify your clitoris, clitoral shaft, inner and outer labia, pelvic floor muscle, urethral sponge (the g-spot), and choose a name for your vulva.  When you view, touch, and name your sex organ, you take ownership of your body.  Pleasure exists for you and those you choose to share it with….period.


Together, we’ll pull back the layers of shame, guilt, misinformation and trauma to reveal your true sexual self.  Through the Bodysex Circle, you’ll authentically share how you feel about your body and your orgasm in a welcoming, non-judgmental space. Being a part of a group of supportive women, sharing struggles and experiences will help you release your own shame.

The Bodysex Circle fosters open and honest discussions that will help you know that you’re not alone in your sexual struggles and gives you practical tools so you can own and enhance your sexual pleasure (i.e.: have more consistent orgasms!) 


Have you ever given yourself a vulva massage? Being connected to your body is a part of good healthThe only way you can be an expert of your own body is by exploring and practicing. Then and only then can you bring yourself to blissful pleasure and ask your partner for what you want sexually. 

Do you know that breath and sound can generate a deep orgasm? Combining the power of your breath and sound can lead to deeply, powerful orgasms.

Have you discovered all the parts of your vulva that feel good? For example, you can experience orgasms just by applying pressure to your outer labia. 

Throughout the Bodysex experience, you’ll learn why masturbation keeps your vulva muscle healthy, boosts your mood, and reduces stress.

During Erotic Recess, you’ll get to apply and practice everything you learned by exploring on your own body, without judgment or expectations. 

Get ready for a powerful, transformational ritual.


We’re committed to helping women reconnect to the truth that sexual pleasure and orgasm is your birthright. 

We hope you’ll step into a Bodysex Circle. You’ll return home appreciating your body, owning your orgasm, and prioritizing your pleasure. 

We want you to absolutely know that: 


There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you or your body!

All you need is the right education, stimulation, and support so you become the expert of your own body and your own pleasure.

So get ready for a blissful, full body, earth shattering, PLEASURE!



 This Workshop is completely Virtual via Zoom (IT WILL NOT BE RECORDED). We'll guide you through all of the rituals shared during an in-person workshop. You will explore the rituals privately from the comfort of home.  Nudity is not required!


As a little Black girl, were you taught that touching “down there” was bad and a no-no? The truth is a Black woman’s pleasure has never been a priority or even an expectation. So, of course, opening up and having an honest conversation about sex is hard. 

And for Black Women especially, your sexual pleasure and orgasms, or the lack thereof, has been given little attention or understanding.  The Euro Centric, Colonizing , Patriarchal  Western American culture (yeah, it’s a mouthful but we said that) has conditioned you to compare and devalue your natural Black Body. 

After a few hours in  Bodysex circle, you’ll begin to unravel all of the BS that has been fed to you and learn lifelong practical tools to unlock and eventually master your own sexual pleasure and satisfaction. And by the way ladies, unlocking this door will unlock the other parts that you may find also unsatisfying and unfulfilling. 


The Self-Pleasure Workshop is exclusively for Black women/vulva-owners at least 18 years old. All sizes, sexual orientation, ability, and religion are welcome. If you are pregnant, menstruating, or menopausal, please join us. As long as you have a vulva/vagina, Bodysex is for you.


Go to Netflix and watch  “The Pleasure is Ours” documentary from Gweneth Paltrow’s The Goop Lab (Season 1; Episode 3) to see if this is right for you. 


The heart of the workshop is vulnerability. We want to become more transparent to ourselves and to each other so that we might uncover things that are keeping us from experiencing pleasure and accepting ourselves as we are. Clothes project an image of who we are and in Bodysex® we want to be as close to our authentic selves as we can be so that the healing processes can happen. This will also help to heal negative body image. Time with others in this state will help us develop a deeper level of comfort within our bodies. However, nudity is not required for this Virtual Workshop. 


Many of us can be stuck in our known masturbation practices and this is a way for you to rethink your practice. A demonstration is done for tips and pointers. We are here to fully learn about our sexuality within our bodies. Masturbation is the foundation of our learning. Doing it together becomes a celebration! We find in breaking this cultural taboo, it becomes natural and a fun learning experience. The best way to learn is by having fun. The experience of witnessing others’ self-generated sexual pleasure and having ours's witnessed is both powerful and vulnerable. There is no right or wrong way to do this. The point is to enjoy yourself as much as possible in the presence of others. Orgasm is not the goal. If you have an orgasm or two or three, that is great and if you don’t that is great too.


If you orgasm, great. If you don't, that's ok too. Orgasm is NOT the goal. We're here to heal body shame, overcome sexual guilt and experience true connection. There's no agenda and no expectations.


All payments are not refundable. 


Feel free to email us at, and we can jump on a quick call to answer any questions you may have. 

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We’re Tosh and Regine, creators of The Black Goddess Collective © and together we're on a mission to help Black women unlock the power of pleasure. We host retreats and courses focused on sacred sexuality and spirituality. You'll walk away with tools to live a life that’s DRIPPING with pleasure, joy, and freedom. Our hope is that you become unapologetic about what you really want and live your best life from that truth.


This was a great trip. Regine and Tosh were great host with great content to help us to go deep within ourselves and let go of stuff that no longer serves us, mental and physical. The food was fresh and wholesome. Every session was elevated. I learned so many tips to add to my tool belt. Lodging, Weather, Food, Atmosphere, other attendees were in perfect harmony. Thanks for this opportunity to elevate. Dr. PF
By Perdita F for Black Goddess Spring Retreat: Declutter & Reset Your Mind, Body,& Soul on Apr 29, 2022
This is my second Black Goddess Retreat with Tosh & Regine and I’ll be forever grateful for the tools, the lessons, the affirmations and the long lasting sisterhood I’ve been blessed with. If you’re needing to recharge and take back what life has zapped from you, The Black Goddess Retreat is for you. Now that I’m home, I’m confident in knowing I can continue the work I’ve started. Thank you, Tosh & Regine for providing a safe space for me to download and recharge so I can be the best ME!!!
By Rosalind D for Black Goddess Spring Retreat: Declutter & Reset Your Mind, Body,& Soul on Apr 26, 2022
I cannot thank Regine and Tosh enough for this UNBELIEVABLE experience. To say that the Black Goddess retreat far exceeded my expectations would be an understatement. The retreat was absolutely TRANSFORMATIONAL. Regine and Tosh have the amazing ability to create a sacred space and community in a short period of time that allows for reflection, revelation and rejuvenation all at once. I explored parts of myself that I had suppressed for an extremely long time that were blocking me from healing and moving closer to the life I truly want, need and desire. To be able to unearth these blocks and learn and practice strategies to work through them have increased my peace quotient and made room for true healing. I feel blessed for this experience of release through community, love, tears and laughter. And to do all of this in a beautiful locale, just steps away from the beach (my absolute happy place), was just the experience I needed for renewal. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I look forward to our next adventure together! Always grateful, Chandra
By Chandra J for Black Goddess Feminine Power New Years Retreat-SOLD OUT on Jan 18, 2022
Exceptional!!!!! This retreat offers a practical and useful manageable tips to apply through personal transformation while easing into a more fulfill and enrich life! Bravo to Regine for her leadership, compassion and poise. I gained a community of like-minded women while on this spiritual cleansing retreat (Temescal) in Puerta Morelos, Mexico. The goal of this retreat: to lead transformations and empowerment through acceptance. Regine and Tosh created a safe space to be real and raw. Team building activities were curated with respect and compassion. I am forever grateful to my sister Chandra for choosing me to embarked on this life changing journey. I highly recommend this retreat for every black woman who is ready to seize full control of their happiness and strives to live a complete and fulfilled life.
By Iris A for Black Goddess Feminine Power New Years Retreat-SOLD OUT on Jan 05, 2022

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