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Oaxaca City
When we travel to foreign places more often than not we are receiving. We give our money in exchange for food, lodging, guiding, services, shows, products. It works out well for all involved, but is often predominantly transactional. We receive something in exchange for our money. What we are doing today is turning this around with the entire intention of giving. We give for all that we have received. We give of our own effort and sacrifice, for these are the gifts that are most alive. We give with grace and humble ceremony, and so our gift becomes an offering. It is not a grand thing, it is simply a meal. Humble, worthy, timeless and welcomed. But it comes from our energy, our effort and our good will. Today we cook, serve, eat and wash.
Of course our hostess and her kin will be there to guide us each step of the way, for it is a traditional Zapotec dish we’ll be making. And some of us will make tortillas. When our guests arrive, we will greet them as we’ve been taught, and a long afternoon lunch will unfold. We will open it, as tradition dictates, with a well deserved sip of mezcal.
As the day fades we return to Oaxaca City and a world whose pace we are more familiar with. But before we leave, one last stop, at the cave of pedimento on the edge of Teotitlan. A place to give thanks for the abundance that has been ours and to make specific requests.